Born
Elizabeth Louisa Osborn (b. 26 Mar 1808, bap. 24 Apr 1808 at
St Mary,
Rotherhithe, Surrey), daughter of James and Ann Osborn, Elizabeth had previously married
Thomas Sheldrick, also at St. Botolph Bishopsgate, on
10 Oct 1830. By the time Elizabeth had their daughter, Eliza Maria Sheldrick, baptised on 19 Aug 1831 in
Hitchin, Hertfordshire, Elizabeth was described on the baptism record as a widow, although at that point, she wasn't, yet. (Elizabeth's mother was from Much Wymondley now
Great Wymondley, Hertfordshire, England, which is about 3 miles from Hitchin.)
Thomas Sheldrick (43) "
A convict in the General Penitentiary" (
Millbank Prison), was buried on 5 Jul 1832 at the burial ground of the General Penitentiary, Millbank. In 1830, Thomas Sheldrick and at the same time John Kimpton, were both sentenced, in Cambridge, to 7 years
Transportation for
Larceny. Then there's a second record ordering the removal of Thomas Sheldrick and John Kimpton from Cambridge to the General Penitentiary on 14 Jul 1830. Clearly Sheldrick died before he could be transported.
This raises so many questions: Why on earth did Elizabeth marry a convict? Sheldrick was convicted, then removed to the Millbank Penitentiary to await his transportation, before the then 41 year old convict married the 22 year old Elizabeth. When/how did they meet? Did he get day-release to get married at St Botolph's? Did the prison allow conjugal visits for their daughter to be conceived? By that time, most people would have known that being married would make no difference to a convict's fate, but I wonder if Elizabeth was looking for a ticket to Australia? Under the Convict Family Reunion Scheme, a male convict could be allowed to bring his wife and children to Australia at the government's expense once he had secured a Ticket of Leave that proved he was reformed and capable of supporting his family. And, the biggest question is whether Henry was aware of the whole history? We'll never know.
Henry Ralph and Elizabeth Louisa Gabbedey added 10 children:
- Henry William Gabbedey bap. 5 Oct 1834 at St John's, Wapping.
- John Gabbodey (sic) b. 11 Dec 1835, bap. 27 Jan 1836 at Shadwell, Ebenezer Chapel, Independant, just north of Ratcliff Highway.
- James Gabbedey b. 1837 S Quarter in SAINT GEORGE IN THE EAST Volume 02 Page 62 (Mother's maiden name listed as OSBORN).
- Jesse Gabbedey b. 1837 S Quarter in SAINT GEORGE IN THE EAST Volume 02 Page 62 (Mother's maiden name SHELDUCK - Sheldrick misspelled.) Jesse and James (The outlaw Jesse James was not yet born) must have been twins, but why different mother's maiden names is a mystery. Died, aged 1, in 1839 J Quarter in Volume 02 Page 50.
- Louisa Ann Gabbedey b. 1839 D Quarter in SAINT GEORGE (IN THE EAST) Volume 02 Page 77 (Mother's maiden name listed as OSBORN).
- Charles Gabbedey b. 1842 M Quarter in SAINT GEORGE (IN THE EAST) Volume 02 Page 82. (Mother's maiden name listed as SHELDRICK).
- Thomas Gabbedey b. 1844 M Quarter in SAINT GEORGE (IN THE EAST) Volume 02 Page 94. (Mother's maiden name listed as SHELDRICK). Bap. Thomas Enoch Gabbedy 25 Mar 1874 at St Anne, Limehouse
- Matilda Gabbedey b. 1845 S Quarter in SAINT GEORGE (IN THE EAST) Volume 02 Page 80. (Mother's maiden name listed as SHELDRICK).
- Joseph William Gabbedey b. 1848 M Quarter in STEPNEY Volume 02 Page 566. (Mother's maiden name listed as OSBORN).
- George Gabbedey b. 1850 J Quarter in STEPNEY Volume 02 Page 586. (Mother's maiden name listed as OSBORN). Died, aged 1, 1851 J Quarter in STEPNEY Volume 02 Page 381.
On Henry William's baptism, the family's address was listed as 70
Anchor and Hope Alley, (Browns Quay, Wapping), St. George in the East and Henry Ralph's occupation listed as Labourer. Later, on daughter Louisa's marriage in 1863, he was described as a Shipwright (as were his father and grandfather.) Once Civil Registration was introduced in 1837, they appear to have given up on baptisms. And what has been used on birth registrations for the mother's maiden name looks random, however, I suppose it depends on how the question was asked - 'maiden name' and 'former name', for example, would elicit two different answers if a woman had been married before.
In 1841, in Charles Square, St George, Tower Hamlets, were Henry Gabbedey (35), Elizabeth Gabbedy (33), Eliza Sheldrick (10), Henry Gabbedey (6), John Gabbedey (5), James Gabbedey (4) and Louisa Ann Gabbedey (2).
In 1851, Henry Gabbedey (44) General Labourer, was living in Sarah Street,
Shadwell, with wife Louisa Gabbedey (43) being
purportedly from Hitchin, Hertfordshire; Henry Gabbedey (17), James Gabbedey (14), Louisa Gabbedey (12), Charles Gabbedey (10), Thomas Gabbedey (8), Matilda Gabbedey (6), Joseph Gabbedey (4), George Gabbedey (0), Eliza Sheldrick (20) and John Channing (21) Blacksmith from Newington, Surrey, Lodger.
In 1861, Henry Gabbeday (54) General Labourer from Poplar, Middlesex was living at
10, King Street, St George in the East, with Louisa Gabbeday (54) from Rotherhithe, Surrey; Henry Gabbeday (27) Sawyer; Charles Gabbeday (19) Shipwright; Thomas Gabbeday (17) Blacksmith; Matilda Gabbeday (16); Joseph Gabbeday (13) Errand Boy; with George Gifford (20) Ostler, Visitor.
In 1871, Henry Gabbedy (63) Widower, Labourer from Poplar, Middlesex, was a Boarder in the household of his son-in-law George Bright (28) Ship's Caulker (married to Matilda Gabbedy) at 7 Northey Street, Limehouse.
Henry Gabbedey formerly of 2 Batson Street, Limehouse, but late of 5 Raymond Street, St George in the East (son Henry William's address), died, aged 70, on 30 Jan 1877 (1877 M Quarter in SAINT GEORGE IN THE EAST Volume 01C Page 299) and was buried on 6 Feb 1877 at the
City of London and Tower Hamlets Cemetery. The burial records list him as Henry William Gabbedy,
which is wrong. It's clearly an error made at the time, either by his son or the clerk. Henry Ralph Gabbedey left his effects (valued at under £300) to his son Henry William Gabbedey and his daughter Louisa Seares.